上两个星期26/03/2009，我的小绮绮在十四个月又九天（434天）试着踏出她人生的第一步。
一步、两步。。。没力了，坐了下来。
她并没放弃，过了一会儿，她在重试。
一步、两步、三步、四步、五步、六步、七步、八步。。。终于走出形状来了~万岁！
她很兴奋，因为刚学会走路，所以一天到晚从屋前走到屋后，在从屋后走到屋前，一点都不会觉得累。
刚开始时是走的很慢的，到今天，已有两个星期多了，却走的健步如飞。
我也很开心，能够陪伴着她让她踏出她的第一步。
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Thursday, April 9, 2009
淹水啦
今凌晨时，被一声很剧烈的雷声吓醒。迷迷糊糊中听到屋外正在下着大雨，感觉上很冷但很温暖，因为有张厚厚的被单。
之后我开始担心了起来，担心不晓得会不会多一会儿就淹水了。。。想着想着。。。不知不觉又睡着了。却发了个无聊的梦。
不多久，就被我的闹铃吵醒。因为我的担忧还紧紧地扎着我的心，闹铃响了之后就不能再赖床了。起床后的第一时刻就是去看看有没有淹水。
糟糕了，外头淹水了。。。
我还是像以往那样，照常上班。那我的瑄瑄呢，我就让她在家休息一天，没去学校上课。
希望雨停了，水也退了。。。
之后我开始担心了起来，担心不晓得会不会多一会儿就淹水了。。。想着想着。。。不知不觉又睡着了。却发了个无聊的梦。
不多久，就被我的闹铃吵醒。因为我的担忧还紧紧地扎着我的心，闹铃响了之后就不能再赖床了。起床后的第一时刻就是去看看有没有淹水。
糟糕了，外头淹水了。。。
我还是像以往那样，照常上班。那我的瑄瑄呢，我就让她在家休息一天，没去学校上课。
希望雨停了，水也退了。。。
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
两则《很棒的觀念和想法》
今天收到朋友寄来的邮件，好像他很懂得我的心情似的。昨天的我真得很火，虽然发泄完了，爽了，但今天的我还是心有余悸。
他寄来的是一则非常棒的简单道理，然而却很少人明白与善用。能够读到这遍文章的人，他们都很幸福，包括我。相信读到的人是数之不尽，然而能够善用的人却寥寥无几。这则文章不只能够让我们赚到了知识与快乐，也能够让我们赚到了道德与健康。何乐而不为？
分享一下：
《很棒的觀念和想法》
大風無法撼動一座山！
當別人對你說了一些刺傷你的話，批評你、羞辱你，你會怎樣？
你會火冒三丈，氣呼呼地罵回去，或是忍氣吞聲地強壓下來？
然後呢？你是否會愈想愈氣，整個情緒都大受影響？
有天，佛陀行經一個村莊，一些前去找他的人對他說話很不客氣，甚至口出穢言。
佛陀站在那裡仔細地、靜靜地聽著，然後說：「謝謝你們來找我，不過我正趕路，下一村的人還在等我，我必須趕過去。不過等明天回來之後我會有較充裕的時間，到時候如果你們還有什麼話想告訴我，再一起過來好嗎？」
那些人簡直不敢相信他們耳朵所聽到的話，和眼前所看到的情景：這個人是怎麼回事？
其中一個人問佛陀：「難道你沒有聽見我們說的話嗎？我們把你說得一無是處，你卻沒有任何反應！」
佛陀說：「假使你要的是我的反應的話，那你來得太晚了，你應該十年前就來的，那時的我就會有所反應。然而，這十年以來我己經不再被別人所控制，我己經不再是個奴隸，我是自己的主人。 我是根據自己在做事，而不是跟隨別人在反應。」
是的，
如果有人對你生氣，那是「他的」問題；
如果他侮辱你，那是「他的」問題；
如果他粗暴無禮，那仍是「他的」問題。
因為他要怎麼說，怎麼做，那是「他的」修養，你能怎麼辦？
讓我再重複一遍上面故事中佛陀所說的話：「我己經不再被別人所控. 制，我己經不再是個奴隸，我是自己的主人。我是根據自己在做事，而不是跟隨別人在反應。」
你是情緒的主人，而不是奴隸。
曾聽過一則故事
有個人每天都固定向某報攤買一份報紙，儘管這個攤販的臉一向都很臭，但他還是每次都對小販客氣地說聲謝謝。
有一次和他同行的朋友看到這情形，便問他：「他每天賣東西都是這種態度嗎？」
「是的。」
「那你為什麼還對他如此客氣？」
那人回答：「我為什麼要讓他決定我的行為？」
是啊！我們為什麼要讓別人的表現來決定自己的行為呢？
你有看過「生命的答案，水知道」這本書嗎？水能夠對人的話與做出反應。當你的心中是喜悅、感恩的時候，水的結晶就是美麗晶透的；當你的心中是憤恨、仇怒的時候，水的結晶則是扭曲混濁的。人的身體裡70%是水分，你可以想像到，當你在生氣、憤恨、痛苦、怨懟的時候，你身體裡70%的水分是以污濁的水溝水的狀況來呈現ㄡ！那…身體又怎麼會健康呢！對吧！
看到這裡，你還要生氣嗎？？
他寄来的是一则非常棒的简单道理，然而却很少人明白与善用。能够读到这遍文章的人，他们都很幸福，包括我。相信读到的人是数之不尽，然而能够善用的人却寥寥无几。这则文章不只能够让我们赚到了知识与快乐，也能够让我们赚到了道德与健康。何乐而不为？
分享一下：
《很棒的觀念和想法》
大風無法撼動一座山！
當別人對你說了一些刺傷你的話，批評你、羞辱你，你會怎樣？
你會火冒三丈，氣呼呼地罵回去，或是忍氣吞聲地強壓下來？
然後呢？你是否會愈想愈氣，整個情緒都大受影響？
有天，佛陀行經一個村莊，一些前去找他的人對他說話很不客氣，甚至口出穢言。
佛陀站在那裡仔細地、靜靜地聽著，然後說：「謝謝你們來找我，不過我正趕路，下一村的人還在等我，我必須趕過去。不過等明天回來之後我會有較充裕的時間，到時候如果你們還有什麼話想告訴我，再一起過來好嗎？」
那些人簡直不敢相信他們耳朵所聽到的話，和眼前所看到的情景：這個人是怎麼回事？
其中一個人問佛陀：「難道你沒有聽見我們說的話嗎？我們把你說得一無是處，你卻沒有任何反應！」
佛陀說：「假使你要的是我的反應的話，那你來得太晚了，你應該十年前就來的，那時的我就會有所反應。然而，這十年以來我己經不再被別人所控制，我己經不再是個奴隸，我是自己的主人。 我是根據自己在做事，而不是跟隨別人在反應。」
是的，
如果有人對你生氣，那是「他的」問題；
如果他侮辱你，那是「他的」問題；
如果他粗暴無禮，那仍是「他的」問題。
因為他要怎麼說，怎麼做，那是「他的」修養，你能怎麼辦？
讓我再重複一遍上面故事中佛陀所說的話：「我己經不再被別人所控. 制，我己經不再是個奴隸，我是自己的主人。我是根據自己在做事，而不是跟隨別人在反應。」
你是情緒的主人，而不是奴隸。
曾聽過一則故事
有個人每天都固定向某報攤買一份報紙，儘管這個攤販的臉一向都很臭，但他還是每次都對小販客氣地說聲謝謝。
有一次和他同行的朋友看到這情形，便問他：「他每天賣東西都是這種態度嗎？」
「是的。」
「那你為什麼還對他如此客氣？」
那人回答：「我為什麼要讓他決定我的行為？」
是啊！我們為什麼要讓別人的表現來決定自己的行為呢？
你有看過「生命的答案，水知道」這本書嗎？水能夠對人的話與做出反應。當你的心中是喜悅、感恩的時候，水的結晶就是美麗晶透的；當你的心中是憤恨、仇怒的時候，水的結晶則是扭曲混濁的。人的身體裡70%是水分，你可以想像到，當你在生氣、憤恨、痛苦、怨懟的時候，你身體裡70%的水分是以污濁的水溝水的狀況來呈現ㄡ！那…身體又怎麼會健康呢！對吧！
看到這裡，你還要生氣嗎？？
Monday, April 6, 2009
让我发泄发泄一下~！爽啦。。。
今天的心情很不好，很不爽。当然就是因为工作上的纠纷。
已经是尽量以乐观的心态去看待了，但毕竟人的心是血肉制成的加上人体上的神经线太多了，结果我还是感觉到很不开心。
我的经理叫我做东西，当然我没有资格说“不”。所以我也抱着开心的心情去完成她要的任务。当任务还没进行时，我问了她需要写上成本吗？她说不需要，只需要售价就可以了。我还重复的问了她几遍，她还是说不需要。那好，我就按她的指示去做。而且完完全全是她的指示，我只跟了她的指示去完成。
完成了，寄附件给她了。也刚好那天我的肚子不舒服，去看医生拿病假半天。
她看到了附件，就说不明白这不明白那，还问回我为什么没填上成本的。我说我问了她，她说不要的。但她却没承认，她还说哪可以没有成本的，那怎么去给报价呢？当时我听了，我是很火，但还是压抑了下来。还不只这样，今天还跟我说，我做的东西看了很乱，她已经叫别人重做了！！我所做的东西还不是她的指示吗？？怎么她现在却说“很乱”？？
一个时常说话出尔反尔的分行经理，对我们身为小员工来说是前途已踏上了坟墓之路！！更何况我们不是那种很懂得擦鞋子的小小职员，那我们的前途更是完蛋了！！
当初进来这家公司，跟到一个已故的销售经理，他人很好。跟到公司的大老板，因该也很好，他身边的职员都跟了她很久很久了，相信是很不错。但是我们槟城这边，跟了她。。。如果是她相信的人，他们就会有很好的前途，如果是他不信任的人。。。完了！！ 我就是其中一个她不信任的人！！
还记得几年前我进了医院，我老公打电话通知他我进了医院。她是不相信，直接去到医院里突击检查。还没关系，一见到我，就问：“嗯~你真的在这里啊？”。。。废话！！我老公都通知你了，我生病进了医院，一定是在医院嘛！不然还会在哪里？？
我想我的前途。。。完了！！唯有的就是一天过一天，自我成长，月到拿薪水就好了。有什么任务，就尽量完成就好了。。。
发泄完了。。。爽了~ 可以回家了。。。哈哈！！
已经是尽量以乐观的心态去看待了，但毕竟人的心是血肉制成的加上人体上的神经线太多了，结果我还是感觉到很不开心。
我的经理叫我做东西，当然我没有资格说“不”。所以我也抱着开心的心情去完成她要的任务。当任务还没进行时，我问了她需要写上成本吗？她说不需要，只需要售价就可以了。我还重复的问了她几遍，她还是说不需要。那好，我就按她的指示去做。而且完完全全是她的指示，我只跟了她的指示去完成。
完成了，寄附件给她了。也刚好那天我的肚子不舒服，去看医生拿病假半天。
她看到了附件，就说不明白这不明白那，还问回我为什么没填上成本的。我说我问了她，她说不要的。但她却没承认，她还说哪可以没有成本的，那怎么去给报价呢？当时我听了，我是很火，但还是压抑了下来。还不只这样，今天还跟我说，我做的东西看了很乱，她已经叫别人重做了！！我所做的东西还不是她的指示吗？？怎么她现在却说“很乱”？？
一个时常说话出尔反尔的分行经理，对我们身为小员工来说是前途已踏上了坟墓之路！！更何况我们不是那种很懂得擦鞋子的小小职员，那我们的前途更是完蛋了！！
当初进来这家公司，跟到一个已故的销售经理，他人很好。跟到公司的大老板，因该也很好，他身边的职员都跟了她很久很久了，相信是很不错。但是我们槟城这边，跟了她。。。如果是她相信的人，他们就会有很好的前途，如果是他不信任的人。。。完了！！ 我就是其中一个她不信任的人！！
还记得几年前我进了医院，我老公打电话通知他我进了医院。她是不相信，直接去到医院里突击检查。还没关系，一见到我，就问：“嗯~你真的在这里啊？”。。。废话！！我老公都通知你了，我生病进了医院，一定是在医院嘛！不然还会在哪里？？
我想我的前途。。。完了！！唯有的就是一天过一天，自我成长，月到拿薪水就好了。有什么任务，就尽量完成就好了。。。
发泄完了。。。爽了~ 可以回家了。。。哈哈！！
Thursday, March 26, 2009
The days I was at Shah Alam - 3rd Day
The third morning, remain the same going to office. Before I leaving, we had a recap discussion what they were learning during past 2 days.
After discussion, I felt that quite sad leaving them because I really like their working environment which is contain of positive magnetism.
Conclusion, I am very happy I can recognize them and be their colleague.
Bye Shah Alam. If next time I still have this opportunity, I will visit you again. See you.
After discussion, I felt that quite sad leaving them because I really like their working environment which is contain of positive magnetism.
Conclusion, I am very happy I can recognize them and be their colleague.
Bye Shah Alam. If next time I still have this opportunity, I will visit you again. See you.
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
The days I was at Shah Alam - 2nd Day and 3rd Night
The second day morning, arrived office. They were starting to utilize the system flow. Because this was the first day they were using this kind of flow, so maybe make them more confusion.
But they are very good, they are intelligent, made more question to ask me, they are no silent when they are learning.
They have a good leader and a kind leader in the Service Department. I like their working environment there has contain a kind of positive magnetism. Hope the positive magnetism will not be temporary. Although they are having some miscommunication with Spare Part Department, but they are also try their best to cooperate with Spare Part Department.
All members of Service Department, they are sitting in the same office even the leaders and supervisors are also sitting in the same room. It has good advantages for every colleague which they are open talk even the problem or question is negative. For personal opinion, if everyone can throw away the "hard feeling", there will not happen "internal office politic". Am I right?
Although I am suffering it at Penang Branch, but I try to throw away "hard feeling", let them be. I clearly understand they are not paying salary for me, how they treated me, its all their business, not my business.
Lunch time, was the same, KT brought me and Casey to somewhere having it. After lunch, back to office, they were continue to work. But I can see, in the morning session and afternoon session, they have improved, at least they know how the flow running smooth. Winnie said "I feel that quite satisfaction, at least I know what I am doing right now." I am feeling happy too.
After 3:30pm, having a discussion with KT and Gan. We discussed the flow that related to Spare Part Department.
After 4:30pm, having a meeting at conference room with Mr. Pan and all Service Department's and Spare Part Department's colleagues including Frank Tan, Iris, Adeline and Tresa.
During meeting, Mr. Pan scolded people, in between Frank Tan was not silent also. Although I do not know what Frank Tan talking about, but I know all his speech is teaching us walking to the right way. He is a very good lecturer.
First time celebrate with Mr. Pan, and also first time to dine with Cake on Banana Leaf. Haha, so funny and enjoy.
After dinner, back to Hotel. It was early yet, but I felt very tired. The night, I slept very well.
But they are very good, they are intelligent, made more question to ask me, they are no silent when they are learning.
They have a good leader and a kind leader in the Service Department. I like their working environment there has contain a kind of positive magnetism. Hope the positive magnetism will not be temporary. Although they are having some miscommunication with Spare Part Department, but they are also try their best to cooperate with Spare Part Department.
All members of Service Department, they are sitting in the same office even the leaders and supervisors are also sitting in the same room. It has good advantages for every colleague which they are open talk even the problem or question is negative. For personal opinion, if everyone can throw away the "hard feeling", there will not happen "internal office politic". Am I right?
Although I am suffering it at Penang Branch, but I try to throw away "hard feeling", let them be. I clearly understand they are not paying salary for me, how they treated me, its all their business, not my business.
Lunch time, was the same, KT brought me and Casey to somewhere having it. After lunch, back to office, they were continue to work. But I can see, in the morning session and afternoon session, they have improved, at least they know how the flow running smooth. Winnie said "I feel that quite satisfaction, at least I know what I am doing right now." I am feeling happy too.
After 3:30pm, having a discussion with KT and Gan. We discussed the flow that related to Spare Part Department.
After 4:30pm, having a meeting at conference room with Mr. Pan and all Service Department's and Spare Part Department's colleagues including Frank Tan, Iris, Adeline and Tresa.
During meeting, Mr. Pan scolded people, in between Frank Tan was not silent also. Although I do not know what Frank Tan talking about, but I know all his speech is teaching us walking to the right way. He is a very good lecturer.
After meeting was 8:00pm, we had a dinner with Mr. Pan at Nasi Kandar nearby office. I saw Adeline brought a cake and I was asking her "Whose birthday?", Adeline said "Har~ you do not know whose birthday?? Is our boss...", oh~ I just knew the day was Mr. Pan's Birthday (19-03-09).
First time celebrate with Mr. Pan, and also first time to dine with Cake on Banana Leaf. Haha, so funny and enjoy.
After dinner, back to Hotel. It was early yet, but I felt very tired. The night, I slept very well.
Saturday, March 21, 2009
The days I was at Shah Alam - 1st Day 2nd Night
First day when departed from Penang at 3:30pm and we arrived Shah Alam at 7:30pm. KT brought me and Casey to have a dinner at somewhere (I do not know what the place called). After dinner and drove to Hotel was 9:45pm. I stayed at Hotel Sri Puchong. It is not a what called "5 Star" hotel, but the Hotel very clean and comfortable. Nice also.
After taking a bath and I still can be watching a drama; ending at 11:00pm. I cannot sleep. Just lying on the bed and think this and think that. Maybe I scared... I did not know what time I was asleep. My alarm clock ringing at 6:00am but I woke up 7:00am.
The Hotel did not supply breakfast. I went down to lobby and I went out to find my breakfast. I could not find the restaurant but luckily when I departed from Penang, Kelvin Chan gave me a bread and I just keep it inside my bag. First morning, my breakfast was "bread".
I was sitting at the lobby there and waiting Ken Lee came to fetch me. When Ken Lee arrived, I did not know who is Ken Lee, I watched that guy and I saw him took out his hand phone and made a call. My hand phone ringing, so I just raise up my hand and said "Yes, is me". Think back, so funny of my reaction.
From Hotel to office need to take about 10 minutes distance. Arrived office, we introduced ourselves to each other and started to work.
First of all, I briefed them how to run and access the INFOARCH system, follow by step by step, they were very cooperation with me and asked me so many question especially Winnie asked. The next I briefed them how is the flow of our Penang running. They are so smart and learned fastest.
Lunch, KT brought us to dine at somewhere (I do not know what the place called). My first lunch of this trip was "Pan Min" (reading as Cantonese). After lunch, we continued our job.
After working hour, we left office at 7:30pm. Casey brought me to her friend's house. They held a Christian Gathering and dinner. I only helped them to wash the vegetable. It was a very special dinner and I never did it before. We standed up to dine. I feel that it has a distinctive flavour. After dinner, Casey's friend - John, he fetched me back to Hotel. The night, Casey brought me that I feel very happy and different during training trip to Shah Alam.
To be continue ...
After taking a bath and I still can be watching a drama; ending at 11:00pm. I cannot sleep. Just lying on the bed and think this and think that. Maybe I scared... I did not know what time I was asleep. My alarm clock ringing at 6:00am but I woke up 7:00am.
The Hotel did not supply breakfast. I went down to lobby and I went out to find my breakfast. I could not find the restaurant but luckily when I departed from Penang, Kelvin Chan gave me a bread and I just keep it inside my bag. First morning, my breakfast was "bread".
I was sitting at the lobby there and waiting Ken Lee came to fetch me. When Ken Lee arrived, I did not know who is Ken Lee, I watched that guy and I saw him took out his hand phone and made a call. My hand phone ringing, so I just raise up my hand and said "Yes, is me". Think back, so funny of my reaction.
From Hotel to office need to take about 10 minutes distance. Arrived office, we introduced ourselves to each other and started to work.
First of all, I briefed them how to run and access the INFOARCH system, follow by step by step, they were very cooperation with me and asked me so many question especially Winnie asked. The next I briefed them how is the flow of our Penang running. They are so smart and learned fastest.
Lunch, KT brought us to dine at somewhere (I do not know what the place called). My first lunch of this trip was "Pan Min" (reading as Cantonese). After lunch, we continued our job.
After working hour, we left office at 7:30pm. Casey brought me to her friend's house. They held a Christian Gathering and dinner. I only helped them to wash the vegetable. It was a very special dinner and I never did it before. We standed up to dine. I feel that it has a distinctive flavour. After dinner, Casey's friend - John, he fetched me back to Hotel. The night, Casey brought me that I feel very happy and different during training trip to Shah Alam.
To be continue ...
Thank You!
Many thousand words of "Thank You" I should appreciate to them who are:
Thanks my dear - Help me to take good care of SuanSuan
Thanks my mother in law - Help me to take good care of my QiQi
Thanks Christy and Mr. Pan - Gave me a chance to Shah Alam and recognize Shah Alam's colleagues
Thanks Adeline - Help me to book Hotel, buy bus ticket and arrange a colleague to fetch me to office everyday
Thanks Ken Lee - Fetched me to office every morning
Thanks KT Chua - Take good care of me especially my lunch and teaching me
Thanks Casey - Brought me a very nice and special dinner and gathering on 19/03/09, the night really made me unforgettable
Thanks Winnie, Hila, Indra, Idi and Casey - We work together, I feel that very happy and it is a fate to bring us recognize each other
Thank you!
Thanks my dear - Help me to take good care of SuanSuan
Thanks my mother in law - Help me to take good care of my QiQi
Thanks Christy and Mr. Pan - Gave me a chance to Shah Alam and recognize Shah Alam's colleagues
Thanks Adeline - Help me to book Hotel, buy bus ticket and arrange a colleague to fetch me to office everyday
Thanks Ken Lee - Fetched me to office every morning
Thanks KT Chua - Take good care of me especially my lunch and teaching me
Thanks Casey - Brought me a very nice and special dinner and gathering on 19/03/09, the night really made me unforgettable
Thanks Winnie, Hila, Indra, Idi and Casey - We work together, I feel that very happy and it is a fate to bring us recognize each other
Thank you!
Bye Shah Alam, Hi Penang
Bye Shah Alam! Hi Penang.
Yesterday I back from Shah Alam at 12:30pm and reached home at 7:15pm. It was a very tired in the bus.
Safely back to home! Great~
Yesterday I back from Shah Alam at 12:30pm and reached home at 7:15pm. It was a very tired in the bus.
Safely back to home! Great~
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
Bye Bye Penang, See You After 3 Days
I will depart. I will be going to Shah Alam for training from today until Friday. I will back to Penang on Friday night.
Bye Penang, see you and good luck to myself~
Bye Penang, see you and good luck to myself~
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